Chapter 18
The disciples ask Jesus who is the greatest in Heaven. Jesus calls over a small child, and tells them that unless they become like little children, they’ll never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles themselves like the child will be called the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Also, whoever welcomes a child welcomes Jesus; and if anyone causes a child to sin, it would be better for them to tie a millstone around their necks and be drowned in the sea. Jesus reiterates his earlier teaching that if your hand or foot causes you to sin, it’s better to cut it off and enter heaven crippled than not at all.
Jesus warns the disciples about being contemptuous of children, because “their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven.” He then tells a story about a shepherd who has 100 sheep; one sheep wanders away, so the shepherd leaves the other 99 to go track down the lost one. When he finds it, he is way happier about that one than he is about the other 99 that didn’t wander off. “In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.”
Jesus then tells them that if someone “sins against them”, i.e. wrongs them, then they should go and “show him his fault, just between the two of you.” If he doesn’t listen, then get one or two witnesses or mutual friends to go with you, so that maybe with multiple points of view the matter can be explained more clearly where he will understand and change his ways. If he still doesn’t listen, take the matter to the church. If he still doesn’t listen, and “refuses to listen even to the church”, then wash your hands of him and treat him no different than you would a pagan or tax collector, and he is basically thrown out of the church until he repents and changes his ways.
“I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. … if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done by my father in heaven.” Anywhere two or three people come together in Jesus’ name, Jesus will be there with them.
Peter asks Jesus how many times he’s supposed to forgive his brother when the brother wrongs him. Up to seven times? Jesus says no, up to 77 times. Jesus then tells a story about a servant who owed his master a giant fortune of ten thousand talents, and wasn’t able to repay it. The master was prepared to sell the servant into slavery and take everything he owned to recoup the debt, but the servant begged him not to and promised to pay everything back if the master would be patient with him. The master took pity on him, and forgave the debt altogether. The servant then went out and found another servant who owed him 100 denarii (equal to 1/500th of a talent), and choked him against a wall and demanded his money back. The other servant begged him to stop and asked for him to be patient, he’d pay all of it back. The first servant ignored his pleas and had him thrown into prison. The other servants thought his hypocrisy was unbelievable, and told the master, who was also outraged. “You wicked servant,” he said, “I cancelled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?” The master then threw him into prison to be tortured until he could repay the debt. “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.”
Commentary
Children: ignorant and gullible, or innocent and unpretentious? Most would choose the former – I’ve said the same myself – but when I think back on my own childhood, I don’t actually recall being all that gullible. I didn’t know much about science and intellectual knowledge and so forth, nor did I really care unless it was related to a topic I was interested in (dinosaurs!), but when it came to dealing with people, you don’t need intellectual knowledge. If someone was trying to get one over on me – a parent, one of my more dubious relatives, somebody at school – if they were lying to me or tried jacking me around, I usually saw through it right away, 90% of the time. In fact I’ve found that my ability to do this has actually diminished as I’ve gotten older; either I won’t get the “he’s lying” signal like I used to, or I’ll get the vibe but discount it and ignore it because I don’t want to seem rude (which usually winds up with me getting screwed over, but hey! nobody thought I was rude while it was happening!). I don’t really hang out with a lot of children, but from my personal highly unscientific anecdotal evidence, I’d say that kids really aren’t that stupid, and won’t automatically just believe whatever you tell them. (Keep in mind that I’m talking about intelligence in regards to human relations, eg being able to detect lies, not intelligence in regards to education, eg chemistry class.) Does any of what I’ve just said even make sense? Moving on.
When Jesus talks about the children’s “angels”, the notes say that he is referring to guardian angels, and that them “always seeing the face of God” means that they have constant access to God. So does that mean that once the kid grows up, their guardian angel could start to lose access to God, e.g. gets more distant from God if the kid does? Are they interconnected some way? The notes imply that, although the actual passage doesn’t. Also, I didn’t know that the bible actually said anything about guardian angels.
Re the 99 sheep thing: If I were one of the good sheep, I’d be kind of jealous and angry about the bad sheep getting all the attention. The good sheep did the stuff they were supposed to do, and as a reward get basically ignored by the herdsman. The bad sheep runs off, does whatever he wants, pulls the herdsman away from all the other sheep that need him so now they’re deprived of his care until he gets back, and as a reward gets all the attention and the herdsman is “so happy” when he comes back and doesn’t even get mad. It’s basically the prodigal son, but with sheep. If I were one of the good sheep, I’d be tempted to become one of the bad sheep since apparently they’re the only ones who get appreciation or attention. Of course, I get that God isn’t exactly analogous to the shepherd because the shepherd can only be in one place at a time, so if he gets pulled away to go stray sheep hunting the other sheep are deprived of his care until he gets back, whereas the same is not true of an omnipresent God. But still.
Re: “you” shall bind/loose – in chapter 16, when Jesus originally gives this power to Peter, the “you” is singular*. When he says it again here, it’s plural. So, at the original giving of the binding/loosing power, Jesus was speaking only to Peter. Here, he apparently says that all of the disciples have this power. When he says, “if two of ‘you’ on earth agree about anything you ask for”, it isn’t clear whether he means any two of the disciples, or any two people in general. The “you” is plural, but that’s not helpful because the sentence could still mean either meaning. The next sentence (“where two or three gather in my name I’ll be with them”) is more clear and apparently means any two or three people, no matter who they are.
Then, we again have the problem of Jesus saying that you’ll get whatever you pray for. The notes say that the “if two of you agree about anything” etc line refers only to the apostles, and that specifically it refers to their ability to bind and loose (ie the “anything” isn’t “anything at all”, it’s “anything to do with binding and loosing”), which I guess could make sense since that that’s the antecedent event. The notes say that this verse (“if two of you agree” etc) applies specifically to binding/loosing in regards to church discipline (ie throwing out of the church someone who commits a wrong and doesn’t repent and won’t listen to the victim, the witnesses, friends, or the church). Basically, excommunication.
Re: The story about the crappy servant who owes his master thousands and thousands of dollars, begs for time, and the master feels compassionate and lets him off altogether. Then, the crappy, dirtbag servant immediately turns around and hunts down some poor sap that owes him like 50 bucks, and starts whaling on him and demanding his money back as of yesterday. How many of us know this person in real life, raise your hand? Yeah, pretty sure we all know one. The notes say, “God is very forgiving, but he also judges those who refuse to forgive.”
*I got conflicting info when I tried googling it, so I used the expedient of looking it up in the KJV; in KJV English, singular “you” is always rendered as “thee” or “thou”. Plural “you” is always rendered as “you” or “ye”. This method seems pretty accurate, but I’m not an ancient language scholar so YMMV. [/disclaimer]